9. They talk you up — when it’s convenient for them.
Toxic friends don’t always cut you down. In fact, sometimes it seems like they’re the most supportive people in your life. But that only seems to be the case when it’s not something that interferes with their influence or that even helps them out. Don’t mistake someone’s well wishes for themself as well wishes for you.
10. They’re always the victim, no matter the situation.
Have you ever gotten mad at them, only for them to turn around and find a way that makes it your fault? No, you’re not crazy — it’s a pretty common tactic toxic people use. After all, if you’re always to blame, you’ll feel worse about themselves and their influence will be stronger.
